Frog Meadow Farm B&B and Massage Oasis for Men

Newfane, Vermont USA

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Why Stay Here?

Your hosts Dave & Scott welcome you to their country B&B and massage oasis welcoming gay and bi men, celebrating 10 years of Camaraderie, Connection & Community!

This stunning property located on 63 acres includes a well-equipped gym, custom massages including Swedish, Deep Tissue and Myofascial Release techniques, outdoor hot tub overlooking perennial gardens, wireless internet and Dave serves up full country breakfasts every morning. Their vision is to provide a welcoming and restorative space for men to relax, take off their clothes and leave the outside world behind. Dave’s intention with his massage is to heal, soothe, and restore balance in the body, mind and spirit.

We offer the ammenities of a fine resort hotel at affordable rates: Luxurious organic cotton velour robes, Massage therapist on-site, Frequent events such as yoga and massage weekends, Frog Meadow's own line of body care products in each bath, Full gym with Olympic free weights, stability balls and yoga mats and Special discounts and packages.

Our romantic, park-like grounds showcase extensive perennial gardens. The 63 acres offer privacy with a swimming pond and hiking/snowshoe trails only 4 miles to rock River. The B&B boasts five generously-sized rooms and suites with mountain views, three with king beds, two with queen beds and each with super-comfy pillow-top mattresses. And of course, there is our hot breakfasts cooked-to order and served family-style in our country kitchen!

Frog Meadow is a place to leave everything behind and celebrate the brotherhood of men. Local attractions include many activities - gay ski week at Mt. Snow(where Scott and Dave met), gay nude swimming holes in the summer, Rock Rivers, hiking trails and nude bathing at The Ledges.

My Gay Getaway highly recommends this property with EXCELLENT service from Dave & Scott!

Dave & Scott also welcome marriage ceremonies at their beautiful property - contact them or website for details.

Visit for information about accommodations, special events and massage packages.


1.“We were fortunate to have discovered this B&B when we were looking for massages during a week's stay at a property near Brattleboro with ten of our best 'couple' friends. Three years later we came back as a couple and thoroughly enjoyed the beauty of this place...mountain views, gardens, hiking and swimming in the spring-fed pond. It was glorious. The eight guests were just the right number to strike up interesting conversations at the breakfast table or in the hot tub. Scott and Dave were great hosts who were very gentle and helpful, passionate about this place, its history and what it has to offer...from nude sunbathing along a stretch of Rock River to the fine dining choices all around this rural setting. All in all, a place worth returning to.” -DB, Ottawa Canada

2.“This was my third consecutive year visiting Frog Meadow Farm. I feared I would find this visit routine and boring, but to my surprise the hosts, Dave and Scott, made my time as exceptional as ever. The accommodations are immaculate. Being a neat freak, I have yet to find a problem with any aspect of this B&B. Dave whips up a delicious and filling breakfast each morning with fresh ingredients many from their own garden. The setting is tranquil and is perfect for the traveler who wants to clear his mind, relax by the hot tub or by the pond and commune with nature. Scott and Dave are accessible and will provide information regarding the sites and sound of Newfane, the surrounding area and where to get a good dinner in the evening. My favorite is the Four Columns Inn Restaurant…it’s a little expensive, but it's my vacation and I don't mind splurging a little. And lastly, Dave's massages will highlight your stay. If you visit, be sure to schedule a 90 minute session you won't regret it!! Folks this is a first-class establishment and well worth taking a trip to Newfane. I'm already planning next year's visit, Number 4!!” -Stan, Orchard Hill, GA

3.“It's difficult to come up with the perfect words to describe the Frog Meadow B&B - Relaxing? Rejuvenating? Or just plain fun? Whatever those words may be, there is something completely refreshing and liberating about being on a lush and beautiful Vermont farm surrounded by friendly men in a completely non-judgmental environment. Plus - and this is the best part - you can be as clothed or unclothed as you feel comfortable with. Want to skinny dip in a crystal clear pool fed by underground springs? No problem. Want to relax fully clothed in a hammock by a small meadow with a good book amid breathtaking views of the Green Mountains beyond? Sure, why not. Here in the mountains it's all about finding your inner peace, whatever that entails. No one cares what you look like, clothed or otherwise.

Dave and Scott are the consummate hosts, going the extra mile with equal doses of wit and candor. Their little slice of heaven outside the village of Newfane is easily accessible from major highways and well worth the final, winding 2.7 mile drive uphill on an unpaved road in true rural Vermont fashion. The payoff at the end for those unaccustomed to such rustic paths is an immaculately designed and maintained post-and-beam house with a huge granite kitchen, large eating area, comfortable family room, and three large bedrooms, plus a separate loft suite over the garage with two beds, a sofabed, and kitchen that's perfect for groups. Those of a more solitary bent can opt for the literal cabin in the woods, unencumbered with modern necessities such as running water for the pure pleasure of being surrounded by nothing but the quiet sounds of chirping insects and a babbling brook amid the cleansing aroma of cedar planks.

All the rooms are comfortably furnished with Vermont wood beds, plush chairs, pillow-top mattresses, and sheets with a high enough thread count for the pickiest Queen. Ahem. Dave and Scott have a discerning eye for the smallest detail, include towels that are kept nice and toasty on a towel warmer in each room.

The best part of Frog Meadow is that there simply is never a shortage of things to do. Start the day with a hearty breakfast made fresh every morning by Dave, including banana-infused waffles served piping hot from an enormous, beeping waffle iron or perhaps crustless quiche infused with local dill and fresh onions supplemented by crunchy bacon and peppery nasturtium flowers. Dave, in addition to being a talented chef, also gives what is possibly one of the best massages on the face of the planet. We've had our fair share of professional massages through the years and believe me, his puts most therapists to shame. Dave has clearly taken his training and gone one step beyond, unencumbered quite frankly by the subliminal hangups most straight massage therapists have about the male body.

We were fortunate to be there during naked yoga weekend, where instructor Jon Poupore knew just how far to push you without requiring a chiropractic medic, whether you were a novice or seasoned pro (thanks again, Jon!) While definitely not an activity for the terminally shy, naked yoga will get you acquainted with muscles you never knew you had, all in a non-threatening and liberating environment. If yoga is not your thing, perhaps side trips to neighboring attractions like Mount Snow or the infamous Appalachian Trail (presumably sans Mark Sanford) might do the trick. Unfortunately, the Rock River nude bathing areas are now (presently) inaccessible thanks to the tragic effects of Hurricane Irene, but the Ledges bathing area is also nearby.

While Newfane is a small burg, there are enough nearby dining options to make things interesting at the end of a busy day. While we opted not to partake this time in the AAA and James Beard award-winning gourmet meals at the nearby Four Columns Inn (although other guests at Frog Meadow raved about the food), we did enjoy an excellent fish fry at funky and rustic Rick's Tavern just outside Newfane village. Excellent eclectic cafe fare such as paninis, thai noodles and crab cakes are also available at the Newfane Cafe and Creamery, and Dave and Scott were more than happy to help us heat up takeout food.

And what can you say about that glorious hot tub. Wood fired, deep, overflowing, and well stocked with nearby towels and beverages it can seat six comfortably and up to fourteen very well acquainted people. One soak under the brilliant stars with the moonlit landscape glowing beyond and all your problems - however fleetingly - disappear into a haze of steaming, swirling water. There is no better therapy in existence.

You'd have to be the greatest Scrooge in all of Scroogedom not to leave Frog Meadow rejuvenated, refreshed, and ready to take on the world. Thanks again guys for a fabulous weekend, and we'll definitely be back with our friends on tow, along with all their body issues. They can just get over it. “ -Al W, West Hartford, CT Review of Frog Meadow Farm B&B and Massage Oasis

MyGayGetaway describes Frog Meadow Farm B&B and Massage Oasis for Men as "The Place to go to in the Northeast for an Exclusively all male oasis and retreat!"

Frog Meadow Farm Bed & Breakfast and Massage Oasis for Gay Men is truly a welcoming, non-judgmental place for men to unwind and shed the trappings of busy modern life. They're only 4 miles from the popular Rock River swimming hole and less than 30 minutes to Mt. Snow and Stratton ski areas! Relax in their pond, soak in their wood-fired hot tub, or enjoy the hiking & cross-country ski/snowshoe trails on 63 private acres.

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Frog Meadow is the Gay Resort you’ve been looking for!

Frog Meadow Bed & Breakfast and Massage Oasis for Men is a welcoming, non-judgmental place for men of all colors and backgrounds to unwind and shed the trappings of busy modern life. Situated on 63 beautiful & private acres, Frog Meadow frequently hosts men’s gatherings, workshops and retreats. Hosts Dave & Scott are committed to providing a welcoming environment to re-connect with nature and yourself.

>There are lots of fun things to do at Frog Meadow, from taking a soak in our wood-fired hot tub, enjoying a massage, hiking and snowshoeing on our 63-acre recreation trail network, working out in our fully-equipped gym...or the supremely satisfying option of hanging out in the hammock and doing nothing at all!

>Our frequent men’s gatherings, workshops & retreats are an opportunity to celebrate, transform, integrate and heal body, mind, spirit and a comfortable, supportive and safe environment for men.

>Our region is known for its open, progressive & welcoming attitude! With great restaurants, three microbreweries & a craft distillery, a cultural & arts community that includes monthly gallery walks, museums, music, theatre, film festivals and more, you’ll want to discover and explore all that gay-friendly Vermont has to offer!

Lodging & Accommodations Exclusively for Men

>Our five unique rooms and suites offer comfortable accommodations for couples and singles and include The North Room, The South Room, The Frog Meadow Suite, The Deluxe Barn Suite and The Brook Cottage.

>Your stay at Frog Meadow comes complete with a full, made-to-order country breakfast prepared daily by Dave. In-season, you will find our own native berries, apples, preserves, edible flowers, asparagus, fresh herbs – and of course, honey from our beehives and apple cider from our orchard– at the breakfast table!

>While you’re with us you’ll have full access to the gym, wood-fired hot tub, swimming pond, 63-acre trail network and surrounding gardens, orchard and grounds and more! There’s so much to do at Frog Meadow’s 63-acres of private paradise – including the option of doing nothing at all!

Men’s Gatherings, Workshops & Retreats

>Our men’s gatherings, workshops & retreats provide a rich opportunity to celebrate, transform, integrate and heal body, mind, spirit and a relaxing and comfortable, supportive and safe environment for men.

>Be sure to check our men’s gatherings, workshops & retreats pages for info about our frequent men’s yoga, massage, spirituality and sexuality workshops, outdoor outings and more!

On-Site Massage

>Dave’s massage training combined with his innate intuitive nature uniquely qualifies him for this work. Dave’s philosophy is that the body, mind, and spirit are intricately intertwined components of the whole being. If any one part is out of alignment all three suffer. By assisting in bringing the body into balance, the mind and spirit benefit as well.

>Dave honors all those who arrive on his table with an individual treatment plan based on input from the client and what he feels with his hands when the work begins.

Wood-Fired Hot Tub

>Frog Meadow’s 750-gallon wood-fired hot tub is open year-round, and is typically heated to approximately 104 degrees. The tub is constructed of aromatic cedar from the pacific northwest, and is warmed by hardwood logs harvested from Frog Meadow’s surrounding forests.

>The tub’s built-in eco-friendly wood stove emits a distinctive mini campfire aroma which you might notice when you first arrive at Frog Meadow. There are no noisy pumps or jets, just 48-inches deep, soothing warm water so you can sit fully upright and relax among the peace and quiet.

>Frog Meadow’s hot tub is the ideal way to relax, release muscle aches, stiffness, pains and renew your body and soul after a workout, a hike, or a trip to the nearby Rock River gay swimming beach. It’s also a great way to unwind immediately before or after a massage with Dave.

Spring-Fed Swimming Pond

>Frog Meadow’s swimming pond is 8 to 12 feet deep and fed by deep springs and the brook, keeping its water cool, fresh and clean. There are several oversize inner tubes for floating in the pond, day or night.

>Immediately next to the pond is a private, grassy sunbathing area complete with chaise lounge chairs for wiling away the afternoon, visiting with other guests, or catching a post-swim nap.

Gardens, Orchard & Wildlife

>Our extensive perennial and annual gardens, varietal apple orchard, fruit and vegetable gardens are pollinated by our active beehives, butterflies, hummingbirds and bats who also call Frog Meadow their home.

>In addition, owls, hawks, songbirds, wild turkeys, pileated woodpeckers, otters, deer, the occasional moose – and of course, our many species of frogs – share their wonderful habitat with our guests.

>Explore Frog Meadow’s gardens and plantings by taking a walkabout tour or relaxing on one of our many stone benches, Adirondack chairs, chaise lounges or the hammock by the swimming pond.

Rock River Gay Naked Beach

>The Newfane area of Southern Vermont is Home to the Gay Beach and Nude Swimming Hole on the Rock River. Frog Meadow is 4 miles from the Rock River trailhead!

>The West River is a relatively long, wide and warm river as compared to the Rock River, which, true to its name, is very rocky, swift and cool. Just upstream from the confluence of the Rock and West Rivers, and only four miles from Frog Meadow off Route 30, there are a series of deep, clear water swimming holes. Known as Indian Love Callby the locals there is a long tradition of nude bathing on the Rock River as there is in Vermont in general.

Discover Gay Vermont!

>Our region is well known for it’s open, progressive values & welcoming attitude to those who may be a bit different than the mainstream! It’s such a gay-friendly region...and it has an amazing collection of interesting and fun things to do!

>Come discover great restaurants, fresh food sources that include farmer’s markets and a food coop, 3 microbreweries & a craft distillery, a cultural & arts community that includes monthly gallery walks, museums, music, theatre, frequent artist’s open studio tours, literary & film festivals (including an annual LGBT film festival) and frequent men’s gatherings, workshops & retreats.

>Discover & explore the many recreational & cultural activities, events, attractions and culinary delights that Brattleboro and gay-friendly Southeast Vermont have to offer!


>10% Discount for MGG Users

>63 Acres of private paradise exclusively for men

>Full Country Breakfast


>Gardens, Orchards, Recreation Trails



>On-Site Massage


>Wood-Fired Hot Tub



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  • Clothing Optional
  • Complimentary Bottles of Water
  • Complimentary/Discounted Breakfast
  • Discount for MGG Users
  • Gardens
  • Gym
  • Jacuzzi
  • Massages
  • Parking
  • Pool
  • Sauna/Hot Tub
  • TV
  • WiFi


My Gay Getaway Bonus

Your hosts offer a 10% discount for My Gay Getaway web users, and 10% off merchandise from the Frog Meadow Store!

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10% bonus wil be taken off from B&B Owners.